People confuse the word cynicism with the word skepticism. One is “you’re not gonna pay attention to anything, think everything’s screwed up, nothing’s ever gonna work out right”, that’s cynicism. But skepticism is, “you’re presented with evidence and you do your best to draw conclusions based on that”. So, as the saying goes, Bill Nye, do you believe in ghosts? No. However, I would love to see one. Bring it on. I’m open minded to the idea, but the more I look into it in a skeptical frame of thinking, the less likely it seems.
If you’re ever lucky enough to find a girl who is a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind, hold on to her. She’ll be yours at two in the morning and still yours at two in the afternoon the next day. She’ll kiss you where it hurts and until it hurts. That’s important. Someone who not only knows how to turn you on but also how to treat you right is someone who is worth a whole hell of a lot.
Talking about our problems is our greatest addiction. Break the habit. Talk about your joys.